YOU are in charge of your life! You're on a back burner. since that day he only texts how my day is going then maybe one or 2 replies and then he doesn’t text back until the next day right before work with the exception of one day he text about 2 hours after I got off. The last words from him a week ago were how he knows how we can meet up and wants to talk about it. Never does. You might have your faith in common but as you can see that is not enough. Hi Amber, You are wise to know not to be the one to ask. have met his GF and she really is awful… cruel and demeaning. If the two of you have been texting for two weeks and have not met up, then determine what you believe is appropriate for your relationship. Some weeks are definitely busier than others. I drove myself crazy trying to figure out what I was doing when I realized it wasn't really about me. And you should be prepared for the possibility. It’s all new to me -I’ve never been in this position. Texting someone that you like on a consistent basis is always such a wonderful feeling. I asked was he communicating with other women and he told me that he was and I’m fine with that because he is not my man but we are getting to know each other and I have expressed to him if he wants to get to know me I acquire more than texting and on the phone I require for us to hang out… I’m trying to see if he’s going to ask me out this weekend and if he’s not I’m just going to fall back but I just wanted to know if this guy is really into me is he stringing me along or he’s just not interested. I told him I am sick of waiting around. You might have asked a guy friend why he texts but doesn’t make plans, but that didn’t help you get a clear answer either. My question is how long do you wait to text a guy back after he has told you he wants to meet up? If you ignore him, he might think you aren’t interested. This happens more often than we think. Not as a side chick mind u. It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He will eventually! To these plans he replied with "hahah" or "lol". I’ll make time, yes. Sounds to me like you are in love with him for a long time and haven’t been honest with yourself about it. I have distanced myself to save my heart, but he always texts saying he loves me. You want to feel cherished, not avoided. I want to play it cool. I’d be patient for a while. Though, to be quite honest, this "crush" anxiety is a bit enjoyable. Just found this and am hoping you can offer some advice! How can you know for sure? When he texts you but doesn’t make plans for weeks or even months at a time, it’s time to face the reality of what is and not what you wish it was. Yesterday we were messaging and I said you should come down for dinner when you fancy a Sunday roast. however i am always the one who asked to hang out. Three weeks prior he said I love you, which I thought was strange. You don’t let men waste your time or wrap you around a little finger to be at his beck and call in case someday he agrees to meet. And no, it does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. Build your self-esteem so that you never accept crumbs again. He mentioned that he wants to hang out with me so bad, I replied that he seemed cool to hang out with, then he said he knew we’d have fun and again no response until the next day and he never did ask me out. Sometimes a man will wake up and realize he better pay more attention to you or risk losing you. You wish your schedules would line up better. Cookies help us deliver our Services. You want a man who makes seeing you a priority every week. Don’t get off the phone without a plan. Let’s face it- We all get busy. So, this is the ONE TIME it’s OK to take matters into your own hands. Otherwise you could waste many more years on this man who thinks only of himself. If he isn’t putting in an effort to spend time and get to know you in person, his options are still open.